Did you say you needed to hold on to him or her to express your identity and independence? He is just a High School graduate or Professional School Graduate?  Do you need someone to say that all the land in the West Indies is yours?   Well, it could be but Cristobal, The French, The English and your government says you have to buy it. They had a program to give land to the people during the '90s
 That was a very good politician.