Do you remember when your mother or your Grandma would spend three hours in a kitchen once a week for the Sunday dinner or barbecue?

Do you remember when your mother or your Grandma would spend three hours in a kitchen once a week for the Sunday dinner or barbecue? There were big bowls of potato salad, rice, vegetable salads, egg salads, roast meats, fish and some chicken. Everybody would pray and she would be soo happy to get an hour of everybody's attention. she got eye contact and storge love.  This is what a woman does for one hour of meaningful attention and she smiles in the sunshine of appreciation.  Some people do other things for this innate and biological need for attention.  They get a dock for their cell phone, dock the phone and put it on a shelf in front of their bathroom door.  The husbands in the old days, however, could spend $40.00 and get an hour of attention as well; with a pedicure on their knees, that is. His mother said when he was 12, ".. this is what a wife does.  I will never let you go. I will never let you down."   He is very dependent now; isn't he?   So, maybe you could stay with your husband in readiness with just the covers even if you are not in the right time for copulation.   He will understand it's not the time but the intimacy is all that he really needs.   You need it too.  Once a day for this intimacy is good while you seek to copulate once a week to get that child in God's kingdom that you both desire.   Isn't it God's kingdom? It is God's kingdom. Let's pray.  I'm sorry. It is God's kingdom but they are your children.